• TEST DRIVE A RELATIONSHIP?

    I spoke to a single guy one time and once again the topic of relationships came up.  (Boy, that topic has been coming up very often. You wouldn’t believe it.) Click here to read about my other conversation. As we were talking, the subject of sex came up.  He recently was feeling convicted ever since… Continue reading

  • ON PURSUING WOMEN… A WORD OF CAUTION…

    I had breakfast with one of the guys from church. Just like many of the single guys in church, we talked about relationships, marriage and the future. We discussed about clarifying why we do what we do. We easily fall into the trap of searching for that thing, that person, that relationship, that career, that… Continue reading

  • IF I COULD ONLY …

    . “I wish I can stay in church the whole day.” “I would love to spend most of my time with friends from church.” “I feel so secure when I am surrounded by my brothers and sisters in Christ.” You probably have heard these statements before or a similar version. The reasons for these statements… Continue reading

  • FUNCTIONAL HEAVENS & SAVIORS

    When there’s something about the Gospel we don’t understand or get, it results in us clinging to what can be called as a Functional Savior. We are all prone to embrace a functional savior to reach some kind of functional heaven. Since we are masters at self-deception, we hold on and protect them.  They can… Continue reading

  • 3 MAJOR DECISIONS YOU’LL NEED TO MAKE

    I tucked my kids to bed tonight. We usually have devotions before they go to bed. Our topic tonight was making major decisions. I told them that in life, they will be making 3 major ones. These are the 3 that I told them. 1. WHO WILL YOU SERVE? Will you serve Jesus, self or… Continue reading