RELATIONAL LEADERSHIP

Leading relationally at all levels: self, family, teams.


Faith

  • ON PURSUING WOMEN… A WORD OF CAUTION…

    I had breakfast with one of the guys from church. Just like many of the single guys in church, we talked about relationships, marriage and the future. We discussed about clarifying why we do what we do. We easily fall into the trap of searching for that thing, that person, that relationship, that career, that… Continue reading

  • IF I COULD ONLY …

    . “I wish I can stay in church the whole day.” “I would love to spend most of my time with friends from church.” “I feel so secure when I am surrounded by my brothers and sisters in Christ.” You probably have heard these statements before or a similar version. The reasons for these statements… Continue reading

  • FUNCTIONAL HEAVENS & SAVIORS

    When there’s something about the Gospel we don’t understand or get, it results in us clinging to what can be called as a Functional Savior. We are all prone to embrace a functional savior to reach some kind of functional heaven. Since we are masters at self-deception, we hold on and protect them.  They can… Continue reading

  • DIFFERENT KIND OF HIGH

    “I was introduced to the church but not to Jesus.” This stuck with me when I was having a conversation with Toch. He grew up with wonderful Christian parents.  He was sheltered, protected and well taken cared of. But when he moved to Manila to study, he was all on his own.  His family, friends,… Continue reading

  • WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE

    I saw a post by my friend Dennis Sy on the topic “When Bad Things Happen” (click here to see) Since I was studying the same topic because I was speaking at our Victory Church in General Santos City, I thought I’d share with you my thoughts. Don’t you wish that life was like John… Continue reading