ON BRIBERY AND INTEGRITY

I recently had lunch with one of the businessmen in church.

He was telling me the story of how “SOP’s” (standard operating procedures) have become an SOP in business negotiations. An “SOP” is a term people use these days in place of the word bribe.

In a recent meeting where he had to present his services, the man in charge assured him that he can get the deal as long as he gives in to this process. This was communicated to him after a series of meetings and several presentations already done.

On this particular meeting when the “bomb” was dropped, my friend, with a straight face responds by thanking him for the opportunity to present.

“Thank you for listening to us and allowing us to present our services to you. We realize that by not giving in to this process of “SOP”, we probably won’t end up with the project. Rest assured, we appreciate your time.”

My friend already conceded to the fact that it would be given to another company who would be willing give “under the table.”

It was inspiring to hear his conviction, stand up for what he believes is right and follow through with the decision.

He knew what he stood for and wasn’t about to sell his character for a couple of million pesos.

Proverbs 28:6 says, “Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than a rich man who is crooked in his ways.”

He didn’t just believe this. He lived it.

How did this story end?

He actually got the deal anyway.

God blessed him and gave the deal to him without needing to give the “SOP.”

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory… (Ephesians 3:20-21)

 

WHEN GOD SEEMS SILENT, PERSIST…

How would you want to be remembered?

If you’d ask one thing that comes to mind when people hear your name, what would that be?

Matthew 15 tells us about a story of a mommy who came to Jesus to ask for help because her daughter was demon-possessed. After their conversation, His commendation was that she had “great faith.”

There were only 2 that Jesus commends having great faith: this Canaanite mom and the centurion.

What characterized this woman’s “great faith?”

DESPERATION

A Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to him, crying out, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is demon-possessed and suffering terribly.” (Matthew 15:22)

This mom came to Jesus crying. Not only was she crying out to Jesus, she called out unto Jesus using a messianic title, “Son of David.”

She must’ve been really desperate. Number 1, she was a Gentile. Canaanites were not ordinary enemies but ancestral enemies of the Jews. Number 2, she was a woman. Women could not readily approach men those days. Number 3, she used a title only Jews would know about Jesus. She must’ve heard it somewhere and she was hoping it would open to door for some type of help.

PERSISTENCE

After saying what she said, the Bible says that Jesus didn’t say a word. He remained silent.

What do you do when God seems silent?

You’ve prayed. You’ve fasted. You’ve claimed all the Bible verses in line with your situation and yet, still no answer from God.

To make matters worse, the disciples tell Jesus to just send her away because she keeps bugging Him.

She was persistent.

The woman came and knelt before him. “Lord, help me!” she said. (Matthew 15:21)

I would’ve probably given up. With resentment, I would’ve walked away from the scene.

But she didn’t.

She didn’t come to Jesus on the basis of merit but on the basis of mercy. She cries out to Jesus and asks for help. No arguments. No justifications. Just a simple cry for help.

Because of this response, Jesus grants her wish.

He commends her as having “great faith.”

God is never moved by need. He is often moved by faith.

A faith that simply seeks mercy, God will honor.

THANKFUL TO GOD FOR JENN ON MOTHER’S DAY

I can’t begin to tell you how thankful I am.

She homeschools our kids.
She makes sure the homefront is well kept and is a refuge for all of us.
She masterfully crafts activities for the whole family.
She magically makes “owies” into tender moments.
She turns scary episodes into humorous turn of events.
She’s able to make boring situations into entertaining ones.

Thanks Jenn for being an amazing mom to our kids.

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